Having outlined in a previous blog the angst, effort, strain and general appalling hardship of clearing my garage.... I've suffered a little setback.
ages and two strong men to remove a selection of unwanted items and
general accretions of rubbish to make my garage fit for my car once
more. The Dark Lady was suitably impressed and had not been pushing for
me to clear realising that all this junk was to her husband "heirlooms
in the making". Also cannily and kindly realising that many of these
items of immense personal value predated her by thirty years.
"junk" was in my genes. It could only be separated from its owner when
the owner realised that it needed to be given the old heave-ho.
So suddenly one day without prompting (I think) I realised this and decided a big clear out was necessary.
waved goodbye to my most treasured rubbish I delightedly and somewhat
belatedly realised that I was free! There was hardly anything left in
As you know if you've been
following the blog and by some of the comments I've made on the show.
2013 hasn't been the best year from a personal point of view. Losing my
Sister in Law and my best friend Clive.
I've spent the last five
months helping to organise his affairs. Whilst his parents had the sad
task of doing most of the donkey work. I helped with clearing his house.
I've known him since we were students and he was always untidy. However
over the years he did start to hoard stuff. So there were printers.
Computers. Fax machines. Files. Magazines. Going back years.
It is heartbreaking going through someone's personal belongings and trying to decide what should stay and what should go.
Would his parents want his school books?
Who would want his wonderfully accurate caricatures of our college lecturers from 1975?
I struggled with this for a long time and took car loads of redundant technology to be recycled.
What about the remaining furniture?
A house clearance man offered us £100 for it.
"Not the piano"
no market for pianos. They are very heavy and take up too much room.
Look at the Internet. It's full of people wanting to get rid of them.
"Do you want to take it away"? I asked.
"£100!" he replied
Hmmmm it needed work. Had not been played in fifteen years and some mice had been nesting in it. So no charity wanted it either.
Then the solicitor got in touch to inform me that the house had to be cleared as the new owners wanted to take over.
There was still a lot of stuff left that needed sorting. What to do? Time was awastin'.
My garage is now filled with more stuff than I had before......and a piano!
a happier note we've had family fun. My step-daughter Ella appeared in a
school production of "Hairspray" she has a terrific singing voice so
was one of the three backing singers. Although as she didn't have a
speaking role one of her friends suggested it was the equivalent of
playing a tree. We all went to the show and it was absolutely
tremendous. The principles were spectacular and apart from the odd
fluffed line it would have put many adult am dram shows to shame.
To see her bubbling with excitement after the show was a delight to witness.
the first time since I moved in in 1999, my house has seen a Christmas tree.
The Dark Lady loves the festive season so I have given her carte
blanche to do what she likes. Normally I've just put up the cards and
forgotten about it. Not this time. We have a tree. We have fairy
lights. We have a wreath on the front door. I will freely admit the
house is much improved as a result . Although the wreath thing....Well
that nearly ended in a tiff:
It was to be fixed with a ribbon attached to the top of the door.
"Have you got any drawing pins?" she trilled prettily as we were out shopping for gew gaws.
"Are you sure"?
"We don't want to have to go back out again if you haven't".
"We'll be fine"
"You absolutely sure you have the drawing pins"?
"No need to shout."
When we returned home. The DL set to sorting out the ribbon and the wreath. I went to fetch the drawing pins.
There then ensued several minutes of frantic searching.
Followed by even more minutes of frantic searching.
Followed by hoots of derisive laughter by a certain wife type person.
At last I found one rusty and generally bent drawing pin at the bottom of a vase.
wreath is now on the door. Calm has been restored and I just need to
put everything back in its proper place again as the house is now as
untidy as my garage.
This will be last blog of 2013. So may I
take this opportunity to wish you a very Happy Christmas and all the very
best for 2014. I hope it will be a happy and healthy one for us all.
Thursday, 5 December 2013
As presumably there was just rolling countryside. Gambolling animals including a rather pesky serpent and Adam and Eve hanging about. There just weren't enough folk around to go and visit. Not enough 'hood' to hang in.
Nor were there enough to make up a football team. Although by then with a rather sparse population of, err, two. If they were going to do some sport it would have had to have been strictly amateur as there wouldn't have been enough population for spectators. Let alone referees. linesmen. Commentators. Pundits and 'Gaffers'.
In fact Gaffers may have vexed God a little as these red faced chaps in sheepskin coats sitting on the sidelines furiously chewing gum, spitting, gesticulating and yelling oaths probably thought they were gods. So it would have been silly to invent competition so early after creation.
This is why I think he/she - for want of something better to do - decided to create something which would give his flock something to do. Something that would keep us occupied. Also something he/she would gain endless pleasure from watching us battle it.
To this end God created....STUFF!
Stuff is the all encompassing term to describe what fills our homes. Sheds. Cars. Pockets and by default heads. It is rarely useful. Takes up a lot of room. Costs a lot of money initially although it suffers catastrophic depreciation and is generally a menace as well as an addiction.
It needs to be tackled. It needs to be kept in check and it is doubtless an instrument of the devil!
I had a week off the other week and decided the time was ripe for "de cluttering". This is a posh marketing term for throwing stuff away. Which is brought to you by the same people pretty much who want to sell you more stuff that you will eventually have to throw away as well. The cycle continues indefinitely. It is a visible form of perpetual motion.
Stuff comes in a variety of categories:
However it could come in useful for spare parts if other similar stuff breaks.
Not broken but may be useful one day although we know in our heart of hearts this is untrue.
State of the art when new. By the time you got it home from the shop the then perpetual cycle of stuff had rendered it worthless and hopelessly old fashioned. So much so. No one would be seen dead with it in the continual battle that is keeping up with the Jones's stuff.
Stuff we think may be valuable one day although we know from the Antiques Roadshow this is a lie. We get more than a little glee from watching dejected people shuffle away having been told their prized Victorian wotnot was only worth pence as it was a poor and damaged example of stuff that everyone had back in the day. Which back then would have fitted into one of the first two groups I've outlined anyway.
This is the worst category as it is very often rubbish to start with. Your children's hand prints as infants. Their terrible "drorings" of Mummy and Daddy that were stuck with such pride to the family fridge.....hang on you didn't chuck the old fridge for the new big American two door model did you? That was the kids first fridge. You should have kept it for sentimental reasons!
Concert tickets. Birthday and Xmas cards. Menus from long forgotten meals. Bits of ribbon from weddings. A lock of hair....from you....no you....no it was Jessica the first born....or was it Jemima? No it was from Barney the family Labrador. He's been in dog heaven twenty years now. Still we have his paw print and his old collar still.
Pernicious isn't it?
To this end and to try and break the cycle. During my week off I was going to get rid of masses of stuff in my garage. Not sure at what point God decided to create the garage but it has little to do with the invention of the internal combustion engine. Garages were built as a receptacle for our ever growing piles of stuff. The car just had to sit outside and stare at the bulging doors. Knowing it was unlikely to get a sniff of the inside.
So I set to clearing my stuff mountain. Most. If not all ticking the above boxes:
A burnt out vacuum cleaner from the late 1950's. That could be worth something one day.
Vacuum cleaners were an everyday household item by then. Pristine and unused maybe. Charred and rusty. It's landfill.
Televisions. Some working. Others not. Six in total including a 12" black and white portable from the mid 80's. Also a flat screen TV. The downside being it was attached to a huge box that vibrated alarmingly of the volume was ever turned up beyond a whisper. Probably worthy few quid second hand.
There are thousands of them out there. The stuff cycle is ensuring that everyone is doing exactly the same as me and upgrading to a bigger screen in a thinner box.
Boxes and boxes of books. Mostly paperbacks. Well a few pence at a second hand bookstore or failing that a charity shop would welcome them I would have thought.
Books about tranquilliser use in the 1980s. The 1977 Good Beer Guide and The National Trust Property guide 1992 are no use to anyone but the author. "Fly fishing" by J.R Hartley at least had a comic purpose. "Teach Yourself Word" - again having limited use unless you still happen to have an old Amstrad word processor knocking around. Er actually I do. See sentimental above. I wrote many of my early scripts and features on that machine. I got rid of loads. However I doubt I've broken the cycle.
So to the final ignominy in the relentless stuff wheel. You buy it. Use it. Discard it. Store it. Then when you have enough of it. You have to pay a man with a van to cart it away. It's will the be recycled somehow and turned into new stuff that you will buy etc. Live long enough and some bits of the stuff could have visited your place several times on one form or another by the time your done!
Your car parked sadly outside could once have been Auntie Gertie's mangle.
"If only we'd kept that old washing aid....it would be worth a fortune......"